• Divorce and Child Custody are more than just legal issues

    Divorce and Child Custody are more than just legal issues

  • Involved in a divorce or custody battle with kids involved?

    Involved in a divorce or custody battle with kids involved?

  • Interrupt the Dance of Conflict

    Interrupt the Dance of Conflict

  • Divorce and Child Custody are more than just legal issues

    Divorce and Child Custody are more than just legal issues

  • Involved in a divorce or custody battle with kids involved?

    Involved in a divorce or custody battle with kids involved?

  • Interrupt the Dance of Conflict

    Interrupt the Dance of Conflict


It Takes Two to Tango

Refusing to join the high conflict “tango” is the first step in setting boundaries and taking control in divorce and custody battles.

Lawyers aren’t Therapists
Therapists aren’t Lawyers

Neither are trained to understand the other when High Conflict personailities are involved, thus creating more chaos.

It only takes one parent to make a change.

Even if only one parent understands and implements the strategies from the High Conflict Diversion Programs™,
the conflict STOPS.

Learn how to stop the dance.

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Court approved parenting classes offered in San Diego locations
that you can attend in person or online.

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Divorce/Custody Coaching & Support

Divorce/Custody Coaching & Support

Avoid the hidden pitfalls of court cases.

Create strategies to achieve the results you want while helping you avoid huge legal and court fees.

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Family Court Preparation

Family Court Preparation

Want to lose everything? Being unprepared for a family court mediation can result in losing the custody battle.

Arrive prepared to present your case for a parenting plan that will be well-received by the court.

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Sample Woman Boy 960

I highly recommend this program for anyone in a high conflict divorce involving child custody or courts, domestic violence, etc.

Brook is an amazing instructor and he is very knowledgeable about the court system. Plus with his holistic training, he provides a very informative and calm setting to deal with tough issues.

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The High Conflict Diversion Program textbook was created to support the classroom experience of learning about parenting in a high conflict divorce or custody dispute.

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Latest Podcasts

Episode 268 Journey Beyond Divorce Interviews Brook On Parallel Parenting

This Episode is and interview that Brook did with Karen McMahon from Journey Beyond Divorce Podcast. It centers around High Conflict Parallel Parenting and is well worth the listen. Enjoy!!

Get our Free High Conflict Diversion Program Booklet: “When Co-Parenting Doesn’t Work.”

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For classes or one on one consults with Brook please visit our http://www.highconflict.net website to register.

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Episode 266 Creating a Narrative VS What is Your Story

In this episode Brook and Tony discuss the difference between telling a story and creating a narrative. The story is something that you tell yourself and others that has your beliefs and perspectives and can often be self deceptive and not fact based. A narrative is fact based and is meant to lead the listener to a conclusion based on same. Listen to the differences that are explored in this podcast as there can be fine lines that need to be explored. Also we want to distant ourselves from our stories so we don't get stuck in the vortex of the vale that can come with our story. Enjoy!!!

 

Get our Free High Conflict Diversion Program Booklet: “When Co-Parenting Doesn’t Work.”

https://disengage.highconflict.net/free-booklet

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For classes or one on one consults with Brook please visit our www.highconflict.net website to register.

 

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Episode 267 High Conflict Co-Parenting Styles,Problematic-Pathological Parenting

In this episode Brook and Michell discuss some of the unconscious ways parents inject behaviors into their parenting and how it affects the children and the unintended consequences there of. Enjoy!!!

You can follow Michelle on instagram @coachmichellesd. 

Get our Free High Conflict Diversion Program Booklet: “When Co-Parenting Doesn’t Work.”

https:/disengage.highconflict.net/free-booklet
Join our mailing list:

Disengage and Thrive: One Email at a Time

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For classes or one on one consults with Brook please visit our http://www.highconflict.net website to register.

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Episode 265 Breaking Free, Understanding Codependency, Narcissistic Abuse and Gaslighting with Ross Rosenberg M.Ed, LCPC, CADC

In this episode Brook has special guest Ross Rosenberg. Ross is a master psychotherapist, author of the book "Human Magnet Syndrome", public speaker, expert witness, and educator. Ross has reconceptulized the notion of codependency in to what he calls Self Love Deficit Disorder. This is a fascinating interview that everyone needs to listen to multiple times. 

You can find more about Ross and his amazing work at https://www.selfloverecovery.com

Get our Free High Conflict Diversion Program Booklet: “When Co-Parenting Doesn’t Work.”

https://www.highconflict.net/booklet 

Join our mailing list:

Disengage and Thrive: One Email at a Time

https://www.highconflict.net/emails

For classes or one on one consults with Brook please visit our highconflict.net website to register.

 

Listen now