• Divorce and Child Custody are more than just legal issues

    Divorce and Child Custody are more than just legal issues

  • Involved in a divorce or custody battle with kids involved?

    Involved in a divorce or custody battle with kids involved?

  • Interrupt the Dance of Conflict

    Interrupt the Dance of Conflict

  • Divorce and Child Custody are more than just legal issues

    Divorce and Child Custody are more than just legal issues

  • Involved in a divorce or custody battle with kids involved?

    Involved in a divorce or custody battle with kids involved?

  • Interrupt the Dance of Conflict

    Interrupt the Dance of Conflict


It Takes Two to Tango

Refusing to join the high conflict “tango” is the first step in setting boundaries and taking control in divorce and custody battles.

Lawyers aren’t Therapists
Therapists aren’t Lawyers

Neither are trained to understand the other when High Conflict personailities are involved, thus creating more chaos.

It only takes one parent to make a change.

Even if only one parent understands and implements the strategies from the High Conflict Diversion Programs™,
the conflict STOPS.

Learn how to stop the dance.

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Divorce/Custody Coaching & Support

Divorce/Custody Coaching & Support

Avoid the hidden pitfalls of court cases.

Create strategies to achieve the results you want while helping you avoid huge legal and court fees.

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Family Court Preparation

Family Court Preparation

Want to lose everything? Being unprepared for a family court mediation can result in losing the custody battle.

Arrive prepared to present your case for a parenting plan that will be well-received by the court.

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Divorce and Custody Mediation

Divorce and Custody Mediation

Reach agreements and resolve issues without going through the family court system.

Book a mediation consultation today.

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Sample Woman Boy 960

I highly recommend this program for anyone in a high conflict divorce involving child custody or courts, domestic violence, etc.

Brook is an amazing instructor and he is very knowledgeable about the court system. Plus with his holistic training, he provides a very informative and calm setting to deal with tough issues.

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The High Conflict Diversion Program textbook was created to support the classroom experience of learning about parenting in a high conflict divorce or custody dispute.

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Latest Podcasts

Episode 31 The Realities of Family Court

In the is Episode Brook and Charlie discuss the Realities of Family Court. The process and the frustration of how the process creates and keeps people anxious and in conflict. By understanding a bit more about what you are in will help you better navigate the process and help you focus on what needs to be focused on while navigating the rough seas of the court path. Enjoy!! Please let us know if this Podcast was helpful and please rate and leave feedback.

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Episode 30 Surviving Parental Alienation

In this Episode Brook and Charlie have a conversation with a survivor of alienation that Brook worked with to create a strategy that helped her navigate the onslaught that comes with a parent trying to alienate the children. Putting together a team and early intervention is the key. Enjoy!!!

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Catastrophic Thinking

In this Episode Brook and Charlie discuss how catastrophic thinking sets our nervous system on fire and keeps us in as state of fear and reaction, leading to a greater chance of getting caught up in the conflict cycle. Enjoy!!!

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I Don't Need This Class

In this episode Brook and Charlie discuss how people are resistant to being ordered to high conflict class and how they want to cut corners in order to just get it done. The disconnect between the feeling of being blamed for the problem, the self-righteous sense of I shouldn’t have to do this and the understanding that these classes are a valuable management tool moving forward with at high conflict personality. Take your time and listen. Enjoy!!!

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Interested in being an instructor?

Interested in being an instructor?

We offer a four-day workshop for those interested in learning how to teach the leading-edge strategies in our High Conflict Diversion Program and becoming a Certified High Conflict Diversion Instructor.

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