• Divorce and Child Custody are more than just legal issues

    Divorce and Child Custody are more than just legal issues

  • Involved in a divorce or custody battle with kids involved?

    Involved in a divorce or custody battle with kids involved?

  • Interrupt the Dance of Conflict

    Interrupt the Dance of Conflict

  • Divorce and Child Custody are more than just legal issues

    Divorce and Child Custody are more than just legal issues

  • Involved in a divorce or custody battle with kids involved?

    Involved in a divorce or custody battle with kids involved?

  • Interrupt the Dance of Conflict

    Interrupt the Dance of Conflict


It Takes Two to Tango

Refusing to join the high conflict “tango” is the first step in setting boundaries and taking control in divorce and custody battles.

Lawyers aren’t Therapists
Therapists aren’t Lawyers

Neither are trained to understand the other when High Conflict personailities are involved, thus creating more chaos.

It only takes one parent to make a change.

Even if only one parent understands and implements the strategies from the High Conflict Diversion Programs™,
the conflict STOPS.

Learn how to stop the dance.

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Divorce/Custody Coaching & Support

Divorce/Custody Coaching & Support

Avoid the hidden pitfalls of court cases.

Create strategies to achieve the results you want while helping you avoid huge legal and court fees.

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Family Court Preparation

Family Court Preparation

Want to lose everything? Being unprepared for a family court mediation can result in losing the custody battle.

Arrive prepared to present your case for a parenting plan that will be well-received by the court.

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Sample Woman Boy 960

I highly recommend this program for anyone in a high conflict divorce involving child custody or courts, domestic violence, etc.

Brook is an amazing instructor and he is very knowledgeable about the court system. Plus with his holistic training, he provides a very informative and calm setting to deal with tough issues.

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The High Conflict Diversion Program textbook was created to support the classroom experience of learning about parenting in a high conflict divorce or custody dispute.

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Latest Podcasts

Episode 293 High Conflict Co-Parenting Combating Harassment and Abuse An Interview with Talking Parents

In this episode Brook Olsen and Kelli Avallone Join the Talking Parents team on their Co-Parenting and Coffee webinar to discuss Parallel Parenting and the use of Co-Parenting Apps. During High Conflict Co-Parenting and dealing with Narcissism and other personality disorders the use of Co-Parenting Apps like Talking Parents can be a useful tool in getting the conflict under control and tracking the conversation between parents. The use of such apps can all so help when going to court to show the level of conflict and who is in may ways causing the conflict to continue. This is a rich conversation that I think will help listeners understand the value in using these tools. Enjoy!!!

You can find Talking Parents at  https://talkingparents.com ›

Please download or free booklet "When Co-Parenting Doesn't Work" @ https://www.highconflict.net/booklet 

and join our mailing list 
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For classes or one on one consults with Brook please visit our https://www.highconflict.net to register

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Episode 291 When The Child Is Resistant To The Therapeutic Process

In this episode Brook, Jussi and Bryson have a complicated discussion around the reasons and solutions for not only solving the difficulties of children resisting conjoint therapy but the reasons for the resistance. The discussions explore some very uncomfortable topics for parents to explore and own and how the court, attorneys and therapists can be more informed and better help these families. Enjoy!!!

Jussi and Bryson can be contacted through their website at https://www.newgrowthcounseling.com

Please download or free booklet "When Co-Parenting Doesn't Work" @ https://www.highconflict.net/booklet 

and join our mailing list 
@ https://www.highconflict.net/emails

For classes or one on one consults with Brook please visit our https://www.highconflict.net to register

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Episode 289 How Family of Origin Dynamics can Translate into High Conflict Relationship Later in Life With Jussi Light LMFT and Bryson Greaves Ph.D

In this episode Jussi Light LMFT and Bryson Greaves Ph.d return to discuss How Family of Origin Dynamics can Translate into High Conflict Relationship Later in Life. This episode is a in-depth discussion the talks about how early beliefs can distort present time experiences that can lead to being reactive and taking things personally as well as creating the transference or projection of those early experiences on to the other co-parent. Often these behaviors are talked about in the context of Personality Disorders like Narcissism or Borderline and in less intrusive labels like Attachment Styles, but in this episode Jussi and Bryson lean away from those tables to speak more directly to some of the behaviors that can lead to high conflict. Enjoy !!!

Jussi and Bryson can be contacted through their website at https://www.newgrowthcounseling.com

Please download or free booklet "When Co-Parenting Doesn't Work" @ https://www.highconflict.net/booklet 

and join our mailing list 
@ https://www.highconflict.net/emails

For classes or one on one consults with Brook please visit our https://www.highconflict.net to register

Listen now

Episode 290 How to Choose a Therapist or Conjoint Therapist for Your Children

In this episode Jussi Light LMFT and Bryson Greaves Ph.d return to discuss How Family of Origin Dynamics can Translate into High Conflict Relationship Later in Life. This episode is a in-depth discussion the talks about how early beliefs can distort present time experiences that can lead to being reactive and taking things personally as well as creating the transference or projection of those early experiences on to the other co-parent. Often these behaviors are talked about in the context of Personality Disorders like Narcissism or Borderline and in less intrusive labels like Attachment Styles, but in this episode Jussi and Bryson lean away from those tables to speak more directly to some of the behaviors that can lead to high conflict. Enjoy !!!

Jussi and Bryson can be contacted through their website at https://www.newgrowthcounseling.com

Please download or free booklet "When Co-Parenting Doesn't Work" @ https://www.highconflict.net/booklet 

and join our mailing list 
@ https://www.highconflict.net/emails

For classes or one on one consults with Brook please visit our https://www.highconflict.net to register

Listen now