• Divorce and Child Custody are more than just legal issues

    Divorce and Child Custody are more than just legal issues

  • Involved in a divorce or custody battle with kids involved?

    Involved in a divorce or custody battle with kids involved?

  • Interrupt the Dance of Conflict

    Interrupt the Dance of Conflict

  • Divorce and Child Custody are more than just legal issues

    Divorce and Child Custody are more than just legal issues

  • Involved in a divorce or custody battle with kids involved?

    Involved in a divorce or custody battle with kids involved?

  • Interrupt the Dance of Conflict

    Interrupt the Dance of Conflict


It Takes Two to Tango

Refusing to join the high conflict “tango” is the first step in setting boundaries and taking control in divorce and custody battles.

Lawyers aren’t Therapists
Therapists aren’t Lawyers

Neither are trained to understand the other when High Conflict personailities are involved, thus creating more chaos.

It only takes one parent to make a change.

Even if only one parent understands and implements the strategies from the High Conflict Diversion Programs™,
the conflict STOPS.

Learn how to stop the dance.

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Divorce/Custody Coaching & Support

Divorce/Custody Coaching & Support

Avoid the hidden pitfalls of court cases.

Create strategies to achieve the results you want while helping you avoid huge legal and court fees.

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Family Court Preparation

Family Court Preparation

Want to lose everything? Being unprepared for a family court mediation can result in losing the custody battle.

Arrive prepared to present your case for a parenting plan that will be well-received by the court.

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Sample Woman Boy 960

I highly recommend this program for anyone in a high conflict divorce involving child custody or courts, domestic violence, etc.

Brook is an amazing instructor and he is very knowledgeable about the court system. Plus with his holistic training, he provides a very informative and calm setting to deal with tough issues.

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The High Conflict Diversion Program textbook was created to support the classroom experience of learning about parenting in a high conflict divorce or custody dispute.

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Latest Podcasts

Episode 225 Parts in Conflict An Internal Family Systems Discussion with Richard Schwartz PhD

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In this podcast Brook interviews Dr. Richard Schwartz PhD. Dr Schwartz developed the Internal Family Systems Model of therapy and has written a number of books on the subject.
In the discussion Dr. Schwartz discusses how the complex PTSD symptoms of Narcissism, and Borderline personalities present and how if the people are willing to do the parts work of this model can begin to see the world differently and move forward in their lives. He also talks about the codependent nature of the partnerships with these people and how the dance can create the high levels of conflict we see in high conflict custody case. This is a MUST LISTEN episode!!! Enjoy

You Can find out more about Dr. Schwartz and his work at
https://ifs-institute.com

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Episode 224 Connecting With Your Children Through Positive Anticipation

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In this episode Brook and Tony discuss the importance of connecting with you children and creating strong connections and secure attachment. When children experience parents that are narcissistic in nature they need a parent that can meet them and have a settled environment The process that Brook and Tony lay out in this podcast will go a long way In creating just that.

 

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Episode 223 Parental Expectations and Children’s Anxiety

In this episode Brook and Michelle discuss how one parents push and their high and unreasonable exceptions cause great levels of anxiety and long term conditioning for the child. Often Narcissistic personalities have unfinished personal business an overlay on the children to become what they were unable achieve on their own.

Get more information at:
www.highconflict.net and join our Facebook group: High Conflict Support for Parent

You can follow Michelle on instagram @coachmichellesd.

 

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Episode 222 Narcissistic Control and the Chaos Machine Narcissistic Control and the Chaos Machine Take 2

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In this episode Brook and Tony talk about the crazy making chaos that comes from dealing with narcissistic personalities and how to navigate the fallout that comes with the out of control behavior that shows up. Co-Parenting with these narcissistic and high conflict personalities and the chaos they create is difficult and this podcast helps understand how they work. 

 

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