• Divorce and Child Custody are more than just legal issues

    Divorce and Child Custody are more than just legal issues

  • Involved in a divorce or custody battle with kids involved?

    Involved in a divorce or custody battle with kids involved?

  • Interrupt the Dance of Conflict

    Interrupt the Dance of Conflict

  • Divorce and Child Custody are more than just legal issues

    Divorce and Child Custody are more than just legal issues

  • Involved in a divorce or custody battle with kids involved?

    Involved in a divorce or custody battle with kids involved?

  • Interrupt the Dance of Conflict

    Interrupt the Dance of Conflict


It Takes Two to Tango

Refusing to join the high conflict “tango” is the first step in setting boundaries and taking control in divorce and custody battles.

Lawyers aren’t Therapists
Therapists aren’t Lawyers

Neither are trained to understand the other when High Conflict personailities are involved, thus creating more chaos.

It only takes one parent to make a change.

Even if only one parent understands and implements the strategies from the High Conflict Diversion Programs™,
the conflict STOPS.

Learn how to stop the dance.

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Divorce/Custody Coaching & Support

Divorce/Custody Coaching & Support

Avoid the hidden pitfalls of court cases.

Create strategies to achieve the results you want while helping you avoid huge legal and court fees.

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Family Court Preparation

Family Court Preparation

Want to lose everything? Being unprepared for a family court mediation can result in losing the custody battle.

Arrive prepared to present your case for a parenting plan that will be well-received by the court.

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Divorce and Custody Mediation

Divorce and Custody Mediation

Reach agreements and resolve issues without going through the family court system.

Book a mediation consultation today.

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Sample Woman Boy 960

I highly recommend this program for anyone in a high conflict divorce involving child custody or courts, domestic violence, etc.

Brook is an amazing instructor and he is very knowledgeable about the court system. Plus with his holistic training, he provides a very informative and calm setting to deal with tough issues.

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Latest Podcasts

Episode 64 Don’t Just Do Something Sit There ( Exploring the 4th Rule of Disengagement)

In this episode Brook and Charlie discuss the 4th rule of Disengagement, what it means and how it works. Enjoy

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Episode 63 What are Reasonable Expectations (The Bell Curve)

In this episode Brook and Charlie discuss how to assess what are reasonable expectations of the other parent, partner, or others we are in relationships with. The idea that we all have the same capabilities is not true and when we have expectations that are not reasonable for the situation it is a receipt for conflict. Enjoy !!!

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Episode 62 New Partners (Roles, Problems, Solutions}

In this episode Brook and Charlie discuss the complications that inherently come with new partners when you are in a high conflict divorce or custody battle with the other parent. Enjoy!!!

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Episode 61 Alienation ( An Interview with Ginger Gentile, Erasing Family)

In this episode Charlie and Brook Interview Ginger Gentile, Film Maker of the documentary Erasing Family. This documentary follows several families going through the pain of alienation and the impact on the children and the alienated parents. I shows not only the separation but the healing that is possible and points to the need for change in the Family Court System across the country as it looks at how parenting can be shared from the beginning in order to avoid much of the pain and anger caused by the Family Court System. Enjoy!!!!

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Interested in being an instructor?

We offer a four-day workshop for those interested in learning how to teach the leading-edge strategies in our High Conflict Diversion Program and becoming a Certified High Conflict Diversion Instructor.

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