• Divorce and Child Custody are more than just legal issues

    Divorce and Child Custody are more than just legal issues

  • Involved in a divorce or custody battle with kids involved?

    Involved in a divorce or custody battle with kids involved?

  • Interrupt the Dance of Conflict

    Interrupt the Dance of Conflict

  • Divorce and Child Custody are more than just legal issues

    Divorce and Child Custody are more than just legal issues

  • Involved in a divorce or custody battle with kids involved?

    Involved in a divorce or custody battle with kids involved?

  • Interrupt the Dance of Conflict

    Interrupt the Dance of Conflict


It Takes Two to Tango

Refusing to join the high conflict “tango” is the first step in setting boundaries and taking control in divorce and custody battles.

Lawyers aren’t Therapists
Therapists aren’t Lawyers

Neither are trained to understand the other when High Conflict personailities are involved, thus creating more chaos.

It only takes one parent to make a change.

Even if only one parent understands and implements the strategies from the High Conflict Diversion Programs™,
the conflict STOPS.

Learn how to stop the dance.

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Divorce/Custody Coaching & Support

Divorce/Custody Coaching & Support

Avoid the hidden pitfalls of court cases.

Create strategies to achieve the results you want while helping you avoid huge legal and court fees.

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Family Court Preparation

Family Court Preparation

Want to lose everything? Being unprepared for a family court mediation can result in losing the custody battle.

Arrive prepared to present your case for a parenting plan that will be well-received by the court.

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Sample Woman Boy 960

I highly recommend this program for anyone in a high conflict divorce involving child custody or courts, domestic violence, etc.

Brook is an amazing instructor and he is very knowledgeable about the court system. Plus with his holistic training, he provides a very informative and calm setting to deal with tough issues.

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The High Conflict Diversion Program textbook was created to support the classroom experience of learning about parenting in a high conflict divorce or custody dispute.

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To learn more about how you can improve your life and the life of your children, sign up here for our free introductory Video [E]Course.

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Latest Podcasts

Episode 194 Stabilizing in Conscious Incompetence

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In this podcast Brook and Eric dive into the depths of navigating and pendulating the chaos and discomfort of Unconscious Incompetence and Conscious Incompetence as a platform for Growth. As you begin to navigate the crazy of high conflict divorce and custody the understanding of this concept is essential for your development of skill sets and stability.

 

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Episode 193 Adjustment Reaction, Catastrophic Thinking and Sense Making

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In this episode Brook and Eric discuss the idea of Adjustment Reaction and how it works, doesn't work and how Catastrophic Thinking and Sense Making come into play. This is a great episode that will make you think deeply and change how you approach activation in your nervous system. In this episode Brook and Eric reference some of Peter Sandman's work. You can find it here http://psandman.com/col/teachable.htm
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Episode 192 Navigating the Anger and Reactivity of Feeling Helpless

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In this episode Brook and Tony explore the strong emotions that arise from the devastating of feeling that you have no control of the various parts of your life and the safety of those you love. They explore the various ways to stay present for those times and ways to help navigate them.

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Episode 191 Trauma, Attachment and High Conflict With Mahshid Hager LMFT

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In this episode Brook has his special guest Mahshid Hager LMFT. Mahshid worked with Brook as a client over 15 years ago and has taken that successfully into raising her two sons. Mahshid and Brook talk about the beginning of her journey and how combining her experience as a therapist help her understand the role of trauma in her high conflict custody journey. Enjoy!!!

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