• Divorce and Child Custody are more than just legal issues

    Divorce and Child Custody are more than just legal issues

  • Involved in a divorce or custody battle with kids involved?

    Involved in a divorce or custody battle with kids involved?

  • Interrupt the Dance of Conflict

    Interrupt the Dance of Conflict

  • Divorce and Child Custody are more than just legal issues

    Divorce and Child Custody are more than just legal issues

  • Involved in a divorce or custody battle with kids involved?

    Involved in a divorce or custody battle with kids involved?

  • Interrupt the Dance of Conflict

    Interrupt the Dance of Conflict


It Takes Two to Tango

Refusing to join the high conflict “tango” is the first step in setting boundaries and taking control in divorce and custody battles.

Lawyers aren’t Therapists
Therapists aren’t Lawyers

Neither are trained to understand the other when High Conflict personailities are involved, thus creating more chaos.

It only takes one parent to make a change.

Even if only one parent understands and implements the strategies from the High Conflict Diversion Programs™,
the conflict STOPS.

Learn how to stop the dance.

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Divorce/Custody Coaching & Support

Divorce/Custody Coaching & Support

Avoid the hidden pitfalls of court cases.

Create strategies to achieve the results you want while helping you avoid huge legal and court fees.

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Family Court Preparation

Family Court Preparation

Want to lose everything? Being unprepared for a family court mediation can result in losing the custody battle.

Arrive prepared to present your case for a parenting plan that will be well-received by the court.

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Sample Woman Boy 960

I highly recommend this program for anyone in a high conflict divorce involving child custody or courts, domestic violence, etc.

Brook is an amazing instructor and he is very knowledgeable about the court system. Plus with his holistic training, he provides a very informative and calm setting to deal with tough issues.

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The High Conflict Diversion Program textbook was created to support the classroom experience of learning about parenting in a high conflict divorce or custody dispute.

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To learn more about how you can improve your life and the life of your children, sign up here for our free introductory Video [E]Course.

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Latest Podcasts

Episode 160 The Development of Survival Strategies do to Poor Attachment and Neglect Part 2 With Eric Sjoberg

In this episode Brook continues the conversation with Eric Sjoberg about the survival strategies that are developed from childhood trauma and neglect and how they express. Enjoy!!!

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Episode 159 Growing Through the Storm

In this episode Brook and Tony explore how the Storm that so many of our listeners are in creates an opportunity to look at things through a different lens and adjust how we see and engage in our world and that of our children's, in such a way that creates long term growth and ease of life during times of stress. Enjoy!!!

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Episode 158 Get Ready, Here Comes The Holliday’s Again and Your Not Ready For the Chaos

In this episode Brook and Tony discuss getting ready for the coming holidays and ways to get in front of the upcoming chaos that your ex is sure to create. Enjoy!!!

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Episode 157 Stop Trying to Make Sense of Any of It!

In this episode Brook and Tony discuss the lost time and sanity that happens when you try to understand the bazzaro world of the high conflict personality and also how to subtly teach your children how to navigate it in their world without debasing the other parent. Enjoy!!!

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