• Divorce and Child Custody are more than just legal issues

    Divorce and Child Custody are more than just legal issues

  • Involved in a divorce or custody battle with kids involved?

    Involved in a divorce or custody battle with kids involved?

  • Interrupt the Dance of Conflict

    Interrupt the Dance of Conflict

  • Divorce and Child Custody are more than just legal issues

    Divorce and Child Custody are more than just legal issues

  • Involved in a divorce or custody battle with kids involved?

    Involved in a divorce or custody battle with kids involved?

  • Interrupt the Dance of Conflict

    Interrupt the Dance of Conflict


It Takes Two to Tango

Refusing to join the high conflict “tango” is the first step in setting boundaries and taking control in divorce and custody battles.

Lawyers aren’t Therapists
Therapists aren’t Lawyers

Neither are trained to understand the other when High Conflict personailities are involved, thus creating more chaos.

It only takes one parent to make a change.

Even if only one parent understands and implements the strategies from the High Conflict Diversion Programs™,
the conflict STOPS.

Learn how to stop the dance.

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Court approved parenting classes offered in San Diego locations
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Divorce/Custody Coaching & Support

Divorce/Custody Coaching & Support

Avoid the hidden pitfalls of court cases.

Create strategies to achieve the results you want while helping you avoid huge legal and court fees.

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Family Court Preparation

Family Court Preparation

Want to lose everything? Being unprepared for a family court mediation can result in losing the custody battle.

Arrive prepared to present your case for a parenting plan that will be well-received by the court.

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Sample Woman Boy 960

I highly recommend this program for anyone in a high conflict divorce involving child custody or courts, domestic violence, etc.

Brook is an amazing instructor and he is very knowledgeable about the court system. Plus with his holistic training, he provides a very informative and calm setting to deal with tough issues.

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The High Conflict Diversion Program textbook was created to support the classroom experience of learning about parenting in a high conflict divorce or custody dispute.

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Latest Podcasts

Episode 259 The Legal Process part 3 with Attorney Kelli Avallone Staying, Leaving, Positives, Negatives, and Surviving

In this forth episode in this series Brook and Attorney Kelli Avallone discuss the process of being stuck in the doldrums of the legal process and the frustrations that go along with that. Understanding that sometimes there is nothing that is or will move the process along and finding ways to sit and process that is difficult and during high conflict cases finding ways to solve some of the custody issues and deal with the financial stress can and ofter does create high levels of anxiety . Kelli does a great job in this episode of explaining many of these sticking points and offers some ways to find perspectives in order to lower the stress. Enjoy!!!

Please download or free booklet "When Co-Parenting Doesn't Work" @ https://www.highconflict.net/booklet 

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For classes or one on one consults with Brook please visit our https://www.highconflict.net website to register.    

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Episode 258 Starting from Where You Are With Michelle Mitchell

In this episode Brook and Michelle discuss the importance of orienting to just where you are it the process, whether you are just thinking about the separation process or you are deep in the throughs of high conflict, using exactly where you are as the starting point and planing where you want to go. Getting the help and direction from the proper source as you move forward is essential as well as keeping the right head space. Enjoy !!!                

You can follow Michelle on instagram @coachmichellesd. 

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Episode 257 Enmeshment and Alienation, A Look From Different Perspectives Part 3 With Jussi Light LMFT and Bryson Greaves PhD.

In this the Third episode of a 3 part series Brook and his special guests Jussi Light and Bryson Greaves discuss enmeshment and alienation from the perspective of the targeted parent in the throughs  of a high conflict custody battle, how it creates a chaos bubble that pulls on their sense of self and the reality of  their connections with their children. This series of podcasts is intended to demystify the complex nature of alienation and enmeshment and to give perspective as to its nature. By understanding more of what is happening for the people involved it becomes easer to navigate. Enjoy!!!

Jussi and Bryson can be contacted through their website at https://www.newgrowthcounseling.com

Please download or free booklet "When Co-Parenting Doesn't Work" @ https://www.highconflict.net/booklet 

and join our mailing list 
@ https://www.highconflict.net/emails

For classes or one on one consults with Brook please visit our https://www.highconflict.net to register

 

 

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Episode 256 Enmeshment and Alienation, A Look From Different Perspectives Part 2 With Jussi Light LMFT and Bryson Greaves PhD.

In this the second episode of a 3 part series Brook and his special guests Jussi Light and Bryson Greaves discuss enmeshment and alienation from the perspective of an enmeshed parent in the throughs  of a high conflict custody battle, how it pulls on their sense of self and the entanglements with the child in order to find attachmet.This series of podcast is intended to demystify the complex nature of alienation and enmeshment and to give perspective as to its nature. By understanding more of what is happening for the people involved it becomes easer to navigate. Enjoy!!!

Jussi and Bryson can be contacted through their website at https://www.newgrowthcounseling.com

Please download or free booklet "When Co-Parenting Doesn't Work" @ https://www.highconflict.net/booklet 

and join our mailing list 
@ https://www.highconflict.net/emails

For classes or one on one consults with Brook please visit our https://www.highconflict.net website to register.    

Listen now