• Divorce and Child Custody are more than just legal issues

    Divorce and Child Custody are more than just legal issues

  • Involved in a divorce or custody battle with kids involved?

    Involved in a divorce or custody battle with kids involved?

  • Interrupt the Dance of Conflict

    Interrupt the Dance of Conflict

  • Divorce and Child Custody are more than just legal issues

    Divorce and Child Custody are more than just legal issues

  • Involved in a divorce or custody battle with kids involved?

    Involved in a divorce or custody battle with kids involved?

  • Interrupt the Dance of Conflict

    Interrupt the Dance of Conflict


It Takes Two to Tango

Refusing to join the high conflict “tango” is the first step in setting boundaries and taking control in divorce and custody battles.

Lawyers aren’t Therapists
Therapists aren’t Lawyers

Neither are trained to understand the other when High Conflict personailities are involved, thus creating more chaos.

It only takes one parent to make a change.

Even if only one parent understands and implements the strategies from the High Conflict Diversion Programs™,
the conflict STOPS.

Learn how to stop the dance.

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Divorce/Custody Coaching & Support

Divorce/Custody Coaching & Support

Avoid the hidden pitfalls of court cases.

Create strategies to achieve the results you want while helping you avoid huge legal and court fees.

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Family Court Preparation

Family Court Preparation

Want to lose everything? Being unprepared for a family court mediation can result in losing the custody battle.

Arrive prepared to present your case for a parenting plan that will be well-received by the court.

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Sample Woman Boy 960

I highly recommend this program for anyone in a high conflict divorce involving child custody or courts, domestic violence, etc.

Brook is an amazing instructor and he is very knowledgeable about the court system. Plus with his holistic training, he provides a very informative and calm setting to deal with tough issues.

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The High Conflict Diversion Program textbook was created to support the classroom experience of learning about parenting in a high conflict divorce or custody dispute.

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Latest Podcasts

Episode 201 Toxic Relationship, Recognition, Leaving,and Disengaging, With Nicola Ranson

In this episode Brook has special guest Nicola Ranson L.C.S.W. Brook and Nicola discuss the difficulty and process of leaving and disengaging toxic relationship. Nicola relates toxic relationships akin to being in a cult and the manipulation of abuse. You can find more on Nicola and her writing at www.nicolaranson.org

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Episode 200 The Zen and The Unfolding With Charlie Jewett

In this podcast Brook has Charlie Jewett back to co-host this episode. Brook and Charlie discuss the Zen of being in the unfolding during the process of being in a high conflict custody and not knowing what to do or how things are going to unfold. Being willing to relax into the abyss and trust.

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Episode 199 Resist and Refuse Part 2 The Younger Years

In this episode Brook and Attorney Kelli Blackburn discuss dealing with children that are resisting or refusing to go with the other parent and in this episode we are focusing on the younger children ages 5-12.

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Episode 198 In the Beginning Orientation Back to The Future and New Rules

In this Brook Rethinks the Three Rules, Reorganizes them and sequences two rules to precede them. The addition of Orientation becomes the precursor to The Three rules and After Don't Just Do Something Sit There. This is a new way to be with the activation of Conflict.

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