• Divorce and Child Custody are more than just legal issues

    Divorce and Child Custody are more than just legal issues

  • Involved in a divorce or custody battle with kids involved?

    Involved in a divorce or custody battle with kids involved?

  • Interrupt the Dance of Conflict

    Interrupt the Dance of Conflict

  • Divorce and Child Custody are more than just legal issues

    Divorce and Child Custody are more than just legal issues

  • Involved in a divorce or custody battle with kids involved?

    Involved in a divorce or custody battle with kids involved?

  • Interrupt the Dance of Conflict

    Interrupt the Dance of Conflict


It Takes Two to Tango

Refusing to join the high conflict “tango” is the first step in setting boundaries and taking control in divorce and custody battles.

Lawyers aren’t Therapists
Therapists aren’t Lawyers

Neither are trained to understand the other when High Conflict personailities are involved, thus creating more chaos.

It only takes one parent to make a change.

Even if only one parent understands and implements the strategies from the High Conflict Diversion Programs™,
the conflict STOPS.

Learn how to stop the dance.

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Divorce/Custody Coaching & Support

Divorce/Custody Coaching & Support

Avoid the hidden pitfalls of court cases.

Create strategies to achieve the results you want while helping you avoid huge legal and court fees.

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Family Court Preparation

Family Court Preparation

Want to lose everything? Being unprepared for a family court mediation can result in losing the custody battle.

Arrive prepared to present your case for a parenting plan that will be well-received by the court.

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Divorce and Custody Mediation

Divorce and Custody Mediation

Reach agreements and resolve issues without going through the family court system.

Book a mediation consultation today.

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Sample Woman Boy 960

I highly recommend this program for anyone in a high conflict divorce involving child custody or courts, domestic violence, etc.

Brook is an amazing instructor and he is very knowledgeable about the court system. Plus with his holistic training, he provides a very informative and calm setting to deal with tough issues.

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The High Conflict Diversion Program textbook was created to support the classroom experience of learning about parenting in a high conflict divorce or custody dispute.

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Latest Podcasts

Episode 35 Children in the Middle (Don't Let It Happen)

In this session Brook and Charlie discuss the pitfalls of putting the children in the middle of the conflict and the unconcious ways many parents do it. Enjoy!!

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Episode 34 Conflict Phishing (Don’t Take the Bait)

In this episode Brook and Charlie discuss the practice I call Conflict Phishing. It is about how the other parent is constantly setting out bait to lure you into the various traps of conflict that keep you spun up and hooked to the battle. Enjoy

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Episode 33 Disengagement, Moving from Detail to Perspective

In this Episode Brook and Eric Sjoberg discuss how to disengage and get out of the weeds in the back and forth that goes on in high conflict circumstances. The concept of Content vs. Perspective is a truly powerful tool when navigating conflict. Enjoy!!!

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Episode 32 Anxiousness

In this episode Brook and Charlie discuss how anxiousness is often the root cause or nexus in the creation of the conflict cycle and how the anxiousness of a parent transfers to that of their children. This is an episode no one should miss.

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Interested in being an instructor?

Interested in being an instructor?

We offer a four-day workshop for those interested in learning how to teach the leading-edge strategies in our High Conflict Diversion Program and becoming a Certified High Conflict Diversion Instructor.

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