• Divorce and Child Custody are more than just legal issues

    Divorce and Child Custody are more than just legal issues

  • Involved in a divorce or custody battle with kids involved?

    Involved in a divorce or custody battle with kids involved?

  • Interrupt the Dance of Conflict

    Interrupt the Dance of Conflict

  • Divorce and Child Custody are more than just legal issues

    Divorce and Child Custody are more than just legal issues

  • Involved in a divorce or custody battle with kids involved?

    Involved in a divorce or custody battle with kids involved?

  • Interrupt the Dance of Conflict

    Interrupt the Dance of Conflict


It Takes Two to Tango

Refusing to join the high conflict “tango” is the first step in setting boundaries and taking control in divorce and custody battles.

Lawyers aren’t Therapists
Therapists aren’t Lawyers

Neither are trained to understand the other when High Conflict personailities are involved, thus creating more chaos.

It only takes one parent to make a change.

Even if only one parent understands and implements the strategies from the High Conflict Diversion Programs™,
the conflict STOPS.

Learn how to stop the dance.

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Divorce/Custody Coaching & Support

Divorce/Custody Coaching & Support

Avoid the hidden pitfalls of court cases.

Create strategies to achieve the results you want while helping you avoid huge legal and court fees.

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Family Court Preparation

Family Court Preparation

Want to lose everything? Being unprepared for a family court mediation can result in losing the custody battle.

Arrive prepared to present your case for a parenting plan that will be well-received by the court.

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Divorce and Custody Mediation

Divorce and Custody Mediation

Reach agreements and resolve issues without going through the family court system.

Book a mediation consultation today.

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Sample Woman Boy 960

I highly recommend this program for anyone in a high conflict divorce involving child custody or courts, domestic violence, etc.

Brook is an amazing instructor and he is very knowledgeable about the court system. Plus with his holistic training, he provides a very informative and calm setting to deal with tough issues.

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Latest Podcasts

Episode 52 What's Yor Story Morning Glory

In this episode Brook and Charlie discuss the perils of the stories we have and how they have distortions and how those distortions are created. When we get lost in the stories and can’t see the distortions of both our story and those of the other parent, we are headed to the abyss of conflict. Enjoy!!!

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Episode 51 Here Kitty, Kitty (The Conflict Trap)

In this episode Brook and Charlie talk about the need for holding strong boundaries and the danger of intermittent reinforcement. Enjoy!!!

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Episode 50 Threading the Needle (The Long Stitch) with Tony MacAlister

In this episode Brook and Charlie talk with Tony MacAlister, a former student in one of Brook’s Classes and a Certified High Conflict Instructor. Tony talks about his journey from the beginning of his custody battle, through the various stages of understanding the conflict process the current day as his journey continues. Enjoy!!!

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Episode 49 Rat Tangle with Eric Sjoberg

In this episode Brook and Charlie are joined again with Eric Sjoberg as they discuss the concept of the Rat Tangle. The Rat tangle has a great deal to do with the unconscious parts of our beliefs and behaviors as it pertains to our ancestry and family of origin. Enjoy!!!

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Interested in being an instructor?

Interested in being an instructor?

We offer a four-day workshop for those interested in learning how to teach the leading-edge strategies in our High Conflict Diversion Program and becoming a Certified High Conflict Diversion Instructor.

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