• Divorce and Child Custody are more than just legal issues

    Divorce and Child Custody are more than just legal issues

  • Involved in a divorce or custody battle with kids involved?

    Involved in a divorce or custody battle with kids involved?

  • Interrupt the Dance of Conflict

    Interrupt the Dance of Conflict

  • Divorce and Child Custody are more than just legal issues

    Divorce and Child Custody are more than just legal issues

  • Involved in a divorce or custody battle with kids involved?

    Involved in a divorce or custody battle with kids involved?

  • Interrupt the Dance of Conflict

    Interrupt the Dance of Conflict


It Takes Two to Tango

Refusing to join the high conflict “tango” is the first step in setting boundaries and taking control in divorce and custody battles.

Lawyers aren’t Therapists
Therapists aren’t Lawyers

Neither are trained to understand the other when High Conflict personailities are involved, thus creating more chaos.

It only takes one parent to make a change.

Even if only one parent understands and implements the strategies from the High Conflict Diversion Programs™,
the conflict STOPS.

Learn how to stop the dance.

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Divorce/Custody Coaching & Support

Divorce/Custody Coaching & Support

Avoid the hidden pitfalls of court cases.

Create strategies to achieve the results you want while helping you avoid huge legal and court fees.

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Family Court Preparation

Family Court Preparation

Want to lose everything? Being unprepared for a family court mediation can result in losing the custody battle.

Arrive prepared to present your case for a parenting plan that will be well-received by the court.

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Sample Woman Boy 960

I highly recommend this program for anyone in a high conflict divorce involving child custody or courts, domestic violence, etc.

Brook is an amazing instructor and he is very knowledgeable about the court system. Plus with his holistic training, he provides a very informative and calm setting to deal with tough issues.

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The High Conflict Diversion Program textbook was created to support the classroom experience of learning about parenting in a high conflict divorce or custody dispute.

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Latest Podcasts

Episode 166 Cleaning House What to Keep and What to Get Rid Of

In this episode Brook discusses with Tony the need to clean the attic and get rid of old belief systems the continue to get in the way of moving forward beyond the continuing conflict. Enjoy !!!

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Episode 165 Understanding of and Skillsets for Settling Your Nervous System with Jorina Elbers MD of the Heart Math Institute

In this episode Brook interviews Dr. Jorina Elbers of the Heart Math Institute. Brook and Dr. Elbers discuss the role of the nervous system in conflict, how the nervous system functions and ways to help settle the nervous system during times of stress. Dr. Elbers is a pediatric neurologist formally from Stanford University. Enjoy!!!

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Episode 164 Know That Family Court Isn't A Management Tool A Conversation With Attorney Kelli Blackburn

In this episode Brook has invited Attorney Kelli Blackburn for a conversation around the notion of depending on the family court as a tool to manage the conflict in your divorce or custody case. Have good listen and enjoy!!!

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Episode 163 Pitfalls of Interpreting and the Benefits of Curiosity and Humility

In this episode Brook and Tony discuss some of the problems that arise from renting space in the other parents head. And how going to curiosity with the humility of not knowing can open doors to understanding and solutions. Enjoy!!!

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