• Divorce and Child Custody are more than just legal issues

    Divorce and Child Custody are more than just legal issues

  • Involved in a divorce or custody battle with kids involved?

    Involved in a divorce or custody battle with kids involved?

  • Interrupt the Dance of Conflict

    Interrupt the Dance of Conflict

  • Divorce and Child Custody are more than just legal issues

    Divorce and Child Custody are more than just legal issues

  • Involved in a divorce or custody battle with kids involved?

    Involved in a divorce or custody battle with kids involved?

  • Interrupt the Dance of Conflict

    Interrupt the Dance of Conflict


It Takes Two to Tango

Refusing to join the high conflict “tango” is the first step in setting boundaries and taking control in divorce and custody battles.

Lawyers aren’t Therapists
Therapists aren’t Lawyers

Neither are trained to understand the other when High Conflict personailities are involved, thus creating more chaos.

It only takes one parent to make a change.

Even if only one parent understands and implements the strategies from the High Conflict Diversion Programs™,
the conflict STOPS.

Learn how to stop the dance.

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Court approved parenting classes offered in San Diego locations
that you can attend in person or online.

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Divorce/Custody Coaching & Support

Divorce/Custody Coaching & Support

Avoid the hidden pitfalls of court cases.

Create strategies to achieve the results you want while helping you avoid huge legal and court fees.

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Family Court Preparation

Family Court Preparation

Want to lose everything? Being unprepared for a family court mediation can result in losing the custody battle.

Arrive prepared to present your case for a parenting plan that will be well-received by the court.

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Sample Woman Boy 960

I highly recommend this program for anyone in a high conflict divorce involving child custody or courts, domestic violence, etc.

Brook is an amazing instructor and he is very knowledgeable about the court system. Plus with his holistic training, he provides a very informative and calm setting to deal with tough issues.

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The High Conflict Diversion Program textbook was created to support the classroom experience of learning about parenting in a high conflict divorce or custody dispute.

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Latest Podcasts

Episode 232 The Mind Trap of the Notion of Fair

In this episode Brook and Tony discuss the need for seasonal preparedness in getting ready for the challenges that come with Spring and Summer travel, not having things in place with a good parenting plan and having a plan in place when things go wrong. Also getting ready to get the kids in place for the next school year because if court is needed you best get started now. Enjoy!!!

Please download or free booklet "When Co-Parenting Doesn't Work" @ https://www.highconflict.net/booklet 

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For classes or one on one consults with Brook please visit our highconflict.net website to register.

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Episode 233 Negative Intimacy Another Look Under the Hood of Narcissistic Behavior

In this episode Brook and Tony discuss Negative Intimacy, a term used to describe how someone with a narcissistic personality keeps the other parent hooked in conflict by applying this often unconscious strategy in order control and punish them. It is a hard concept to understand because it makes no sense and does harm to the children by keeping them in the middle of the ongoing fight between the two parents. Brook and Tony discuss how this narcissistic attachment style can develop during childhood and become a pattern in adulthood.

Free High Conflict Diversion Program Booklet: “When Co-Parenting Doesn’t Work.”

https://www.highconflict.net/booklet 

Join our mailing list:

Disengage and Thrive: One Email at a Time

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For classes or one on one consults with Brook please visit our highconflict.net website to register

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Episode 231 Spring and Summer What Will It Be Flowers or Poison Oak

In this episode Brook and Tony discuss the need for seasonal preparedness in getting ready for the challenges that come with Spring and Summer travel, not having things in place with a good parenting plan and having a plan in place when things go wrong. Also getting ready to get the kids in place for the next school year because if court is needed you best get started now. Enjoy!!!

Free High Conflict Diversion Program Booklet: “When Co-Parenting Doesn’t Work.”

https://www.highconflict.net/booklet 

Join our mailing list:

Disengage and Thrive: One Email at a Time

 https://www.highconflict.net/emails

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Episode 230 Emotional Blackmail, A Double Bind Conversation Leading From Entitlement to Weaponization

In this episode Brook and Tony discuss how children often use Emotional Blackmail and put their parents in areas of discomfort to get what the want. This is especially prevalent during parental discourse and conflict. The parent doesn't want to make the child feel uncomfortable during times of change and allow for things they might not normally. This can lead to the Child's sense of Entitlement and the development of strong narcissistic traits later in life. How parents get comfortable with the uncomfortable feelings for both themselves and their children is an important skillset to develop.

Free High Conflict Diversion Program Booklet: “When Co-Parenting Doesn’t Work.”

https://www.highconflict.net/booklet 

Join our mailing list:

Disengage and Thrive: One Email at a Time

 https://www.highconflict.net/emails

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