• Divorce and Child Custody are more than just legal issues

    Divorce and Child Custody are more than just legal issues

  • Involved in a divorce or custody battle with kids involved?

    Involved in a divorce or custody battle with kids involved?

  • Interrupt the Dance of Conflict

    Interrupt the Dance of Conflict

  • Divorce and Child Custody are more than just legal issues

    Divorce and Child Custody are more than just legal issues

  • Involved in a divorce or custody battle with kids involved?

    Involved in a divorce or custody battle with kids involved?

  • Interrupt the Dance of Conflict

    Interrupt the Dance of Conflict


It Takes Two to Tango

Refusing to join the high conflict “tango” is the first step in setting boundaries and taking control in divorce and custody battles.

Lawyers aren’t Therapists
Therapists aren’t Lawyers

Neither are trained to understand the other when High Conflict personailities are involved, thus creating more chaos.

It only takes one parent to make a change.

Even if only one parent understands and implements the strategies from the High Conflict Diversion Programs™,
the conflict STOPS.

Learn how to stop the dance.

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Divorce/Custody Coaching & Support

Divorce/Custody Coaching & Support

Avoid the hidden pitfalls of court cases.

Create strategies to achieve the results you want while helping you avoid huge legal and court fees.

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Family Court Preparation

Family Court Preparation

Want to lose everything? Being unprepared for a family court mediation can result in losing the custody battle.

Arrive prepared to present your case for a parenting plan that will be well-received by the court.

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Divorce and Custody Mediation

Divorce and Custody Mediation

Reach agreements and resolve issues without going through the family court system.

Book a mediation consultation today.

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Sample Woman Boy 960

I highly recommend this program for anyone in a high conflict divorce involving child custody or courts, domestic violence, etc.

Brook is an amazing instructor and he is very knowledgeable about the court system. Plus with his holistic training, he provides a very informative and calm setting to deal with tough issues.

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The High Conflict Diversion Program textbook was created to support the classroom experience of learning about parenting in a high conflict divorce or custody dispute.

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Latest Podcasts

Episode 113 Covid Holidays

In this episode Brook and Tony discuss the extra strains that Covid 19 put on families involved in High Conflict during the holidays and some solutions to help navigate them. Enjoy!!!

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HCCP Episode 001-Disengage, Disengage, Disengage

These are the three rules of dealing with difficult ex-partners: Disengage, Disengage, Disengage. This is so difficult and everything inside of us wants to engage, defend, fight back etc. At least, that's the way it is in the beginning. You will hear some of my favorite quotes from the world of conflict management including: "DON'T JUST DO SOMETHING, SIT THERE" and "WE ARE IN CHARGE OF OUR OWN EVOLUTION". Brook is going to teach us how to hack our brains so that we can finally let go and disengage, and experience the peace that's available to each and every one of us.

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Episode 112 The Step Parent Trap Part 4 Kids view of Step Parents (Ways they cope) Why boundaries are difficult

In this episode Brook and Tony continue the Parent Trap Series with a perspective look from the kids point of view. This is an important orientation for parents and step parents to have. Enjoy!!!

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Episode 111 “Scorched Earth” “I am going to take everything” What is this about

In this episode Brook and Tony talk about the behavior of a personality willing to implement a Scorched Earth Policy and some ways to get your head around that kind of crazy in order not to get lost in it. Enjoy!!!

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Interested in being an instructor?

Interested in being an instructor?

We offer a four-day workshop for those interested in learning how to teach the leading-edge strategies in our High Conflict Diversion Program and becoming a Certified High Conflict Diversion Instructor.

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