The High Conflict Co-Parenting Podcast
Co-Parenting is the relationship that never ends.
If your ex is difficult to deal with, if you are experiencing high-conflict and/or the children are being hurt by the behavior of your ex partner, then this show is for you.
You may not be able to change them but you CAN change everything that your child needs to be healthy and happy. Listen in as Charlie and Brook discuss the principles, tools and techniques available in order to create peace in high conflict co-parenting relationships.
Episode 40 Divorce and Finance
In this episode Brook and Charlie talk about how finances can be a major factor in conflict and some of the ways to get a perspective on how to maximize what you have and strategies to build on for a more secure future. Enjoy!!!
Episode 39 Doing No Harm (A template for professionals)(and for you to help the professionals)
In this episode Brook and Charlie discuss the need for professionals to understand the high conflict personalities and strategies to keep from doing damage to the case do to a lack of fully understanding the complexities of working with these clients. Enjoy!!!
Episode 39 Doing No Harm (A template for professionals)(and for you to help the professionals)
In this episode Brook and Charlie discuss the need for professionals to understand the high conflict personalities and strategies to keep from doing damage to the case do to a lack of fully understanding the complexities of working with these clients. Enjoy!!!
Episode 38 The Flypaper Effect (Don't Touch It)
In this episode Brook and Charlie discuss the Flypaper Effect. How High Conflict Personalities attract us into and get us entangled in conflict, in such a way that it feels like we just can’t release ourselves from the flypaper. Enjoy!!!
Episode 37 What is the Fight About (Assessing the Etiology of the Conflict)
In this episode Brook and Charlie have a conversation about the structure and components that make up conflict. Please enjoy!!!
Episode 36 Choices, Change, Conflict
In this episode Brook and Charlie discuss Choices, Change and Conflict. How when we begin to make choices toward health, the change that is created can engage us in healthy conflict that can propel us toward a future that will bring us to a point of new perspectives. Enjoy!!!
Episode 35 Children in the Middle (Don't Let It Happen)
In this session Brook and Charlie discuss the pitfalls of putting the children in the middle of the conflict and the unconcious ways many parents do it. Enjoy!!
Episode 34 Conflict Phishing (Don’t Take the Bait)
In this episode Brook and Charlie discuss the practice I call Conflict Phishing. It is about how the other parent is constantly setting out bait to lure you into the various traps of conflict that keep you spun up and hooked to the battle. Enjoy
Episode 33 Disengagement, Moving from Detail to Perspective
In this Episode Brook and Eric Sjoberg discuss how to disengage and get out of the weeds in the back and forth that goes on in high conflict circumstances. The concept of Content vs. Perspective is a truly powerful tool when navigating conflict. Enjoy!!!
Episode 32 Anxiousness
In this episode Brook and Charlie discuss how anxiousness is often the root cause or nexus in the creation of the conflict cycle and how the anxiousness of a parent transfers to that of their children. This is an episode no one should miss.