The High Conflict Co-Parenting Podcast
Co-Parenting is the relationship that never ends.
If your ex is difficult to deal with, if you are experiencing high-conflict and/or the children are being hurt by the behavior of your ex partner, then this show is for you.
You may not be able to change them but you CAN change everything that your child needs to be healthy and happy. Listen in as Charlie and Brook discuss the principles, tools and techniques available in order to create peace in high conflict co-parenting relationships.
Episode 226 Gratitude, Moving Beyond Stuck and Into Agency
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In this episode Brook and Tony discuss the notion of finding the prospective of replacing gratitude and wonderment from victimization and what is being done to me, in order to get the ball rolling forward toward growth and agency for the future. By doing this one moves toward being the captain of their own ship and takes on a leadership role both internally as well as in their external world. Take some time with this one and let it sink in.
Episode 225 Parts in Conflict An Internal Family Systems Discussion with Richard Schwartz PhD
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In this podcast Brook interviews Dr. Richard Schwartz PhD. Dr Schwartz developed the Internal Family Systems Model of therapy and has written a number of books on the subject.
In the discussion Dr. Schwartz discusses how the complex PTSD symptoms of Narcissism, and Borderline personalities present and how if the people are willing to do the parts work of this model can begin to see the world differently and move forward in their lives. He also talks about the codependent nature of the partnerships with these people and how the dance can create the high levels of conflict we see in high conflict custody case. This is a MUST LISTEN episode!!! EnjoyYou Can find out more about Dr. Schwartz and his work at
https://ifs-institute.comEpisode 224 Connecting With Your Children Through Positive Anticipation
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In this episode Brook and Tony discuss the importance of connecting with you children and creating strong connections and secure attachment. When children experience parents that are narcissistic in nature they need a parent that can meet them and have a settled environment The process that Brook and Tony lay out in this podcast will go a long way In creating just that.
Episode 223 Parental Expectations and Children’s Anxiety
In this episode Brook and Michelle discuss how one parents push and their high and unreasonable exceptions cause great levels of anxiety and long term conditioning for the child. Often Narcissistic personalities have unfinished personal business an overlay on the children to become what they were unable achieve on their own.
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Episode 222 Narcissistic Control and the Chaos Machine Narcissistic Control and the Chaos Machine Take 2
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In this episode Brook and Tony talk about the crazy making chaos that comes from dealing with narcissistic personalities and how to navigate the fallout that comes with the out of control behavior that shows up. Co-Parenting with these narcissistic and high conflict personalities and the chaos they create is difficult and this podcast helps understand how they work.
Episode 221 Is It a Preferred Parent, Targeted Parent, Resist and Refuse or Alienation and How to Move Forward
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In this episode Brook and his guest Patrice Courteau LCSW discuss the various aspects of why a child becomes distant from a parent. Where it ofter starts, progresses and how to navigate the tricky journey if you are the parent on the end of not seeing your children as much as you would like.
You can contact Patrice at
patricecourteau@yahoo.comEpisode 220 Navigating The Aftermath of Alienation with Shelby Milford
In this episode Brook and his guest Shelby Milford of Beyond the High Road Coaching discuss the devastating effects of the trauma caused from having a child alienated from them and how to begin to put things back together and have a healthy outlook into the future.
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Episode 219 Revenge and The Unconscious and Conscious Weaponizing Of The Children
In this episode Brook and Michelle discuss how some parents are in revenge mode and use the children as weapons both consciously and unconsciously. Brook and Michelle help the listeners identify some of these patterns so they can change them and further get the children out of the middle of the conflict.
You can follow Michelle on instagram @coachmichellesd.
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Episode 218 The Disengagement Dilemma
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In this episode Brook and Michelle discuss how the disengagement process brings up strong emotions of anxiety, fear and confusion and how to begin to be with the process. They give examples of differing situation that can help understand what disengaging means and how to find solutions you might not otherwise discover.
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Episode 217 How To Communicate Like a Buddhist Inside and Out With Author Cynthia Kane
In this episode Brook welcomes special guest Cynthia Kane, author of the book Communicate Like.A Buddhist. Brook and Cynthia discuss the principles of Mindfulness and Self Awareness as the pathway to reduce conflict both internally and externally as well as a pathway to better relationships.
To contact Cynthia you can email her @ cynthia@intentionalcommunicationinstitute.com and her website is intentionalcommunicationinstitute.comIf you are finding these podcast of value and would like to continue receiving this free content, commercial free please consider donating using the Donate button on your podcast page. Enjoy!!!