Co-Parenting is the relationship that never ends.
If your ex is difficult to deal with, if you are experiencing high-conflict and/or the children are being hurt by the behavior of your ex partner, then this show is for you.
You may not be able to change them but you CAN change everything that your child needs to be healthy and happy. Listen in as Charlie and Brook discuss the principles, tools and techniques available in order to create peace in high conflict co-parenting relationships.
In this episode Brook, Charlie and Tony discuss the scary clown that is always just behind the door or curtain just waiting to jump out and try to reengage us. Enjoy!!!
In this episode Brook and Charlie discuss the importance of focusing on what it is that you are doing to solve the situation and relationship with you children and not focusing on what the other parent is doing. Enjoy
In this episode Brook and Charlie discuss the elements that go into The Three Rules. This isn’t just a repetition or mantra we do, it is actually a sequence and deepening into a process that progresses over time and that requires effort and intention. Enjoy!!!
In this episode Brook and Charlie Discuss the Break Up Sequences and how Leaving the relationship differs from Being Left. The discussion leads us into what are normal responses and where personality disorders and addiction can lead into becoming stuck in long cycles of conflict. Enjoy!!!
In this episode Brook and Charlie discuss the need to anticipate holiday challenges and to be proactive in dealing with them and not waiting for the last minute when it is too late. Enjoy!!!
In this episode Brook and Charlie discuss the perils of the stories we have and how they have distortions and how those distortions are created. When we get lost in the stories and can’t see the distortions of both our story and those of the other parent, we are headed to the abyss of conflict. Enjoy!!!
In this episode Brook and Charlie talk about the need for holding strong boundaries and the danger of intermittent reinforcement. Enjoy!!!
In this episode Brook and Charlie talk with Tony MacAlister, a former student in one of Brook’s Classes and a Certified High Conflict Instructor. Tony talks about his journey from the beginning of his custody battle, through the various stages of understanding the conflict process the current day as his journey continues. Enjoy!!!
In this episode Brook and Charlie are joined again with Eric Sjoberg as they discuss the concept of the Rat Tangle. The Rat tangle has a great deal to do with the unconscious parts of our beliefs and behaviors as it pertains to our ancestry and family of origin. Enjoy!!!
In this Episode Brook and Charlie talk about Rising from the Ashes of a High Conflict Relationship, Divorce or Custody Battle. Changing the internal chatter into a rising up into a totally new world. Enjoy!!!