The High Conflict Co-Parenting Podcast
Co-Parenting is the relationship that never ends.
If your ex is difficult to deal with, if you are experiencing high-conflict and/or the children are being hurt by the behavior of your ex partner, then this show is for you.
You may not be able to change them but you CAN change everything that your child needs to be healthy and happy. Listen in as Charlie and Brook discuss the principles, tools and techniques available in order to create peace in high conflict co-parenting relationships.
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Episode 244 1+1=2=Co-Parenting - 2-1=You=Parallel Parenting, You Are the Solution
In this episode Brook and Tony use mathematical metaphors in discussing the struggles parents endure while navigating dealing with narcissistic co-parents. It is exhausting to constantly having to get he children's needs met on your own and even worse when the other parent actually goes out of their way to block any direction you go. This episode will give you ways to think to clear the way. Enjoy!!!
Please download or free booklet "When Co-Parenting Doesn't Work" @ https://www.highconflict.net/booklet
and join our mailing list
@ https://www.highconflict.net/emailsFor classes or one on one consults with Brook please visit our https://www.highconflict.net website to register.
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Episode 243 Educating Professionals on Navigating High Conflict and Understanding Parallel Parenting With Attorney Susan Myres
In this episode Brook has special guest Attorney Susan Myres to discuss The need for educating family law professionals of all types about High Conflict custody cases, how personality disorder such as narcissism, borderline, etc drive these cases and the various models such as parallel parenting can help the courts navigate and better serve the parents caught in the high conflict cycle. Enjoy!!!
Free High Conflict Diversion Program Booklet: “When Co-Parenting Doesn’t Work.”
https://www.highconflict.net/booklet
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Disengage and Thrive: One Email at a Time
https://www.highconflict.net/emailsFor classes or one on one consults with Brook please visit our www.highconflict.net website to register.
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Episode 242 Overcoming Power Differentials Costs and Benefits Revised
In this episode Brook and Michelle discuss the variety of ways we get stuck in power differential when trying to navigate financial and custody fights, both old and new. The stickiness of the battle or the lack of information, outside forces often keeps us from finding off ramps to the fight that keep the children stuck and you from moving on. There or costs and benefits to each approach and the options all need to be investigated early so you can direct the solutions. Enjoy!!!!
You can follow Michelle on instagram @coachmichellesd.Free High Conflict Diversion Program Booklet: “When Co-Parenting Doesn’t Work.”
https://www.highconflict.net/booklet
Join our mailing list:
Disengage and Thrive: One Email at a Time
https://www.highconflict.net/emails
For classes or one on one consults with Brook please visit our www.highconflict.net website to register.
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Episode 241 Attuning to Your Children During High Conflict Times with Your EX
In this episode Brook and Tony have a deep discussion about the responsibility of parents to take notice of where they get lost in the chaos of the high conflict situations the arise during divorce and custody battles and sometimes simply separation. This chaos leaves the child having to deal with the sense that no one is paying attention to their experience and they have deal with that alone. Parents need to make attuning to the child a priority and noticing where they, the parent get lost in their own chaos and narcissistic needs. Enjoy!!!
Please download or free booklet "When Co-Parenting Doesn't Work" @ https://www.highconflict.net/bookletand join our mailing list
@ https://www.highconflict.net/emailsFor classes or one on one consults with Brook please visit our https://www.highconflict.net website to register.
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Episode 240 The Reflection Pool
In this episode Brook talks about the need to periodically stop and reflect on where we have been, the journey we have traveled to this point and the mistakes and success we have experienced. This is an important part of our growth that takes us away from our own narcissism and allows us to see the world through the eyes of others and to see ourselves in a clearer light. The reflective process is also about where we have been distracted from our goals and helps us move more effectively into the future. Enjoy!!!
Please download or free booklet "When Co-Parenting Doesn't Work" @ https://www.highconflict.net/booklet
and join our mailing list @ https://www.highconflict.net/emails For classes or one on one consults with Brook please visit our https://www.highconflict.net website to register
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Episode 239 Creating Structure and Navigating Narcissism and Other High Conflcit Personalities With Bill Eddy
In this episode Brook has special guest Bill Eddy to discuss High Conflcit Personalities,(Narcissistic, Borderline, Antisocial), and how to create structure in order to better navigate the pressures of dealing with them as parents. Brook and Bill also discuss some of the nature of dealing with alienation and possible solutions that can be explored. Enjoy!!!
Please download or free booklet "When Co-Parenting Doesn't Work" @ https://www.highconflict.net/booklet
and join our mailing list
@ https://www.highconflict.net/emailsFor classes or one on one consults with Brook please visit our higcconflict.net website to register.
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Episode 238 Raising Your Children, Leading While Following
In this episode Brook and Tony take another look at parenting and the importance of attainment with your children and the special attention that is essential to building as strong sense of self and self esteem in you kids. This Episode is directed at all parents not just those in High Conflict and not just a parallel parenting model. Please share this one with other parents you know as I think it will help wake up new thoughts in the direction you take in your parenting journey. Enjoy!!!
Please download or free booklet Free High Conflict Diversion Program Booklet: “When Co-Parenting Doesn’t Work.”
https://www.highconflict.net/booklet
Join our mailing list:
Disengage and Thrive: One Email at a Time
https://www.highconflict.net/emails
For classes or one on one consults with Brook please visit our www.highconflict.net website to register.
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Episode 237 When the Path of Least Resistance Creates More Chaos
In this episode Brook and Michelle discuss how the process of conflict as it unfolds as a condition of anxiety and often a want for expediency with one or both parties. Brook and Michelle discuss how using Mind Mapping and the exploration of all aspects of the situation, (although it may take more time) and by using a coach to help get through the weeds can actually be the faster more complete way of staying out of future conflict.
You can follow Michelle on instagram @coachmichellesd.
Free High Conflict Diversion Program Booklet: “When Co-Parenting Doesn’t Work.”
https://www.highconflict.net/booklet
Join our mailing list:
Disengage and Thrive: One Email at a Time
https://www.highconflict.net/emails
For classes or one on one consults with Brook please visit our highconflict.net website to register.
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Episode 236 Separating the Static From The Signal
In this episode Brook and Tony discuss how by creating what Brook calls Static the other parent is creating a distraction or misdirection in order to confuse or detract from the underlying goal of controlling a situation. This is a common narcissistic tool and when you understand what is.taking place you are more able to extract the signal of what is actually taking place and not get drawn into a conflict that has little or no relevance to solving the true issues at hand. Enjoy!!!!
Free High Conflict Diversion Program Booklet: “When Co-Parenting Doesn’t Work.”
https://www.highconflict.net/booklet
Join our mailing list:
Disengage and Thrive: One Email at a Time
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Episode 235 Blind Spots, Why We Keep Expecting Something Different From Our Exe’s and How it Blindsides Us
In this episode Brook and Michelle discuss the Blind Spots that arise from having unrealistic expectations about the other parents reactions to a given situation. These unrealistic expectations often can be expose early, prior to making critical mistakes if there is a sense making process put in place, one that uses past experiences that have been had with that parent that we have either forgotten or dismiss because we want a different outcome.
You can follow Michelle on instagram @coachmichellesd.
Free High Conflict Diversion Program Booklet: “When Co-Parenting Doesn’t Work.”
https://www.highconflict.net/booklet
Join our mailing list:
Disengage and Thrive: One Email at a Time
https://www.highconflict.net/emails
For classes or one on one consults with Brook please visit our highconflict.net website to register.