The High Conflict Co-Parenting Podcast

Co-Parenting is the relationship that never ends.

If your ex is difficult to deal with, if you are experiencing high-conflict and/or the children are being hurt by the behavior of your ex partner, then this show is for you.

You may not be able to change them but you CAN change everything that your child needs to be healthy and happy. Listen in as Charlie and Brook discuss the principles, tools and techniques available in order to create peace in high conflict co-parenting relationships.

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    In this episode Brook has his special guest Mahshid Hager LMFT. Mahshid worked with Brook as a client over 15 years ago and has taken that successfully into raising her two sons. Mahshid and Brook talk about the beginning of her journey and how combining her experience as a therapist help her understand the role of trauma in her high conflict custody journey. Enjoy!!!

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    In this episode Brook has his special guest Mahshid Hager LMFT. Mahshid worked with Brook as a client over 15 years ago and has taken that successfully into raising her two sons. Mahshid and Brook talk about the beginning of her journey and how combining her experience as a therapist help her understand the role of trauma in her high conflict custody journey. Enjoy!!!

  3. In this episode Brook welcomes back as a guest co-host Michelle Mitchell to discuss more of the nuances around the conversation of the disengage, disengage, disengage concept. Along with the possible long term progression of the parallel parenting model. You can follow Michelle on instagram @coachmichellesd. If you are finding these podcast of value and would like to continue receiving this free content, commercial free please consider donating using the Donate button on your podcast page. Enjoy!!!

  4. In this episode Brook and Tony talk about the notion and experience of revenge and it's subtle manifestations and how it can slip unconsciously into weaponization of the children in the conflict between parents. If you are finding these podcast of value and would like to continue receiving this free content, commercial free please consider donating using the Donate button on your podcast page. Enjoy!!!

  5. In this episode Brook Olsen and his guest Attorney/Mediator Julie Mack discuss what actually constitutes a high conflict case vs a difficult case and how it may be possible to mediate in a high conflict situation. Not all work out but where does it make sense to try either before court happens or some times after it has started. If you are finding these podcast of value and would like to continue receiving this free content, commercial free please consider donating using the Donate button on your podcast page. Enjoy!!!

  6. In this Episode Brook and Tony discuss the differing mindset and how they either keep us stuck as in a Set Mindset or move us toward Success as in a Growth Mindset. We generally have one or the other as a baseline by frequency function with both. If you are finding these podcast of value and would like to continue receiving this free content, commercial free please consider donating using the Donate button on your podcast page. Enjoy!!!

  7. In this podcast Brook looks at the components that create the structure of conflict helps to look at the things that drive both you and the other parent. This will help you understand better the complex that the two of you dance in and give you tools to better navigate. Enjoy!!!

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  8. In this episode Brook and Tony begin a discussion about how when you begin to caught up in the notion of something isn't fair, it becomes a trap that keeps you stuck doing things that don't serve you, your children or your situation.

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  9. In this episode Brook has invited Dr. Luke Dalflume Phd to discuss how custody evaluations are conducted and the process he sees as sometimes excessive and resource consuming and some of the ways he along with other professionals are trying to develop a more streamlined process.

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  10. In this episode Brook and Tony discuss Coping Mechanisms how they develop and how adaptive and maladaptive coping unfolds and are developed.

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