The High Conflict Co-Parenting Podcast

Co-Parenting is the relationship that never ends.

If your ex is difficult to deal with, if you are experiencing high-conflict and/or the children are being hurt by the behavior of your ex partner, then this show is for you.

You may not be able to change them but you CAN change everything that your child needs to be healthy and happy. Listen in as Charlie and Brook discuss the principles, tools and techniques available in order to create peace in high conflict co-parenting relationships.

  1. In this episode Jussi Light LMFT and Bryson Greaves Ph.d return to discuss How Family of Origin Dynamics can Translate into High Conflict Relationship Later in Life. This episode is a in-depth discussion the talks about how early beliefs can distort present time experiences that can lead to being reactive and taking things personally as well as creating the transference or projection of those early experiences on to the other co-parent. Often these behaviors are talked about in the context of Personality Disorders like Narcissism or Borderline and in less intrusive labels like Attachment Styles, but in this episode Jussi and Bryson lean away from those tables to speak more directly to some of the behaviors that can lead to high conflict. Enjoy !!!

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  2. In this episode Jussi Light LMFT and Bryson Greaves Ph.d return to discuss How Family of Origin Dynamics can Translate into High Conflict Relationship Later in Life. This episode is a in-depth discussion the talks about how early beliefs can distort present time experiences that can lead to being reactive and taking things personally as well as creating the transference or projection of those early experiences on to the other co-parent. Often these behaviors are talked about in the context of Personality Disorders like Narcissism or Borderline and in less intrusive labels like Attachment Styles, but in this episode Jussi and Bryson lean away from those tables to speak more directly to some of the behaviors that can lead to high conflict. Enjoy !!!

    Jussi and Bryson can be contacted through their website at https://www.newgrowthcounseling.com

    Please download or free booklet "When Co-Parenting Doesn't Work" @ https://www.highconflict.net/booklet 

    and join our mailing list 
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    For classes or one on one consults with Brook please visit our https://www.highconflict.net to register

  3. In this episode Brook and his co-host for this week Michelle Mitchell discuss the common state that happens when people enter into and realize the complexity of a High Conflict Divorce or Custody Case with someone with a personality disorder such as Narcissism or Borderline personality disorder. This is not unusual and working one's way through the confusion and darkness does in fact have a way out. Enjoy this episode and contemplate where you are and how you relate to this discussion.

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  4. In this episode Brook and Charley talk about nervous system activation and hypervigilance using the analogy of a barking dog. This episode will help you orient to the activation that comes from the other parent and be able to better manage that by entering into a conscious relationship with that part inside you. 

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  5. In this episode of the High Conflict Co-Parenting Podcast Brook and Tony discuss the difference between Capacity and Competency and that building of the container ( Capacity) has to happen first and then from there Competency can build. 

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  6. In this episode Brook speaks with Attorney Kelli Avallone about the in's and out's, Features and Down sides of teaching for "Hidden Assets". Finding Assets can be difficult and deciding to do so should be a "Return On Investment" inquiry. Enjoy!!!!

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  7. In this episode Brook speaks with guest Forest Bronzon from Digital Detox. Forest is the CEO of Digital Detox whose goal and purpose is to educate parents, schools and children in the differing ways to use the digital environment in a healthy and connected manner. During divorce and high conflict custody battles it is often hard to navigate boundaries regarding electronics  and rules are often different and opposite in each house. Forest discuss some of the ways to help children and parents navigate the ever evolving landscape of the digital world. Digital Detox offers many resources to help. Enjoy!!! https://www.digitaldetox.com/

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  8. In This Episode Brook and Tony discuss the unique stress that Tweens and Teen face in dealing with High Conflict Co-Parenting situations and how parenting styles can either mitigate the stress or exacerbate it. Giving the children room for expression and choice in direction for their lives and holding space and patience for their process is essential. Enjoy!!

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  9. In this Podcast Brook interviews Dr. David Marcus. Dr. Marcus discuss how to develop common emotional languages with children of varying developmental stages in order to connect and create a safe environment for the child to express.  Dr. Marcus is in private practice and is in the process of publishing a book on the subject. Dr. Marcus can be contacted via email at, dsmarcusphd@gmail.com

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  10. In this episode Brook has special guest David Forrestall CEO of SecurIT360 to talk about how to best secure you and you children from the ability of your Ex or for that matter anyone else from being able to track/cyberstalk. Mr. Forrestall give practical and useable information on securing you devices, social media, cloud based storage and applications. Also in the notes below he has provided links to a video he produced with the Cyber help line that will help guide you through many of the processes. Thanks for your continued listenership. You are the reason we continue to provide you with these podcasts. 

    https://www.thecyberhelpline.com/

    Their Guides for help - https://www.thecyberhelpline.com/guides-2

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