The High Conflict Co-Parenting Podcast

Co-Parenting is the relationship that never ends.

If your ex is difficult to deal with, if you are experiencing high-conflict and/or the children are being hurt by the behavior of your ex partner, then this show is for you.

You may not be able to change them but you CAN change everything that your child needs to be healthy and happy. Listen in as Charlie and Brook discuss the principles, tools and techniques available in order to create peace in high conflict co-parenting relationships.

  1. In this episode Brook has guest Shelly Boismenu MFT as his guest. Brook and Shelly discuss how the period of time during high conflict divorce and custody struggles, is one of the most fertile times for transformation and new ways of thinking. Looking toward what you want to create rather than the pain of the past and what has you stuck. By working with someone that understands both the phycology and court system it becomes easier to navigate the road blocks one sets for themselves and chart a course to a more stable future. 
    Shelly Boismenu has been a private practice mental health therapist for the past twenty years. A decade ago, she encountered, and successfully applied a set of profound teachings in her own intense custody and co-parenting experience. Since then, she has been teaching these principles to women in similar unwanted circumstances with great success. Shelly joins Brook this month to teach the connection between your thoughts and your reality, the most important thing to do when you are in the midst of an unwanted custody experience and how to maintain a steady practice to shift your inner landscape and watch the outer landscape transform. 
    Shelly can be contacted via her website: http://www.shellyboismenumft.com/

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  2. In this episode Brook brings in guest Tamara Fyke, Tamara Fyke is a creative entrepreneur with a passion for kids, families, and urban communities. She is the creator and founder of BlueWonder Creative which focuses on children’s mental health and wellness in education through Love In A Big World.
    Finding yes and navigating power struggles with children at all levels. Love in a Big World has created resources for both parents and educators to help children thrive and succeed. Enjoy this podcast!!!

    You can find Love in a big world at 
    https://loveinabigworld.com/programs

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  3. In this episode Brook has special guest Attorney and Mediator Scott Levin in to discuss some of the  Principles and Strategies for mediation in high conflict divorces. Scott, after many years of successful litigation practices decided to move into servicing his clients through mediation rather than the often venomous and destructive path of litigation. In this interview Brook and Scott discuss some of the strategies he uses during mediation in high conflict cases and how, when done in a principled and strategic manner can result in successful mediation. 

    You can visit Scott's website for more information on his practice at    https://sandiegofamilylawyer.net/

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  4. In this episode Brook has guest therapist Brian Burns of the Bad Weather podcast in to discuss Navigating High Conflict Divorce and Custody. Brook and Brian take a dive into the Karpman Drama Triangle and pull it apart in a deeper discussion of the role   parents play in it, and how it sets the energetic template for how children experience being caught in the middle of the conflict. Brook and Brian discuss how a parent can disengage from the triangle and take self responsibility to navigate the long game. Enjoy!!!

    You can follow the Bad Weather Podcast at https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/bad-weather-podcast/id1667974583

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  5. In this Special Episode Brook has Special Guest Dr. Peter Levine. Brook Studied under Dr. Levine and assisted in 2 years of the Somatic Experiencing™ Trainings. Much of Brooks approach comes from studying Dr. Levine's work. In this episode Brook discusses Dr. Levine's new book "The Autobiography of Trauma and delves into how generational and cultural trauma affects imprints on people, a fascinating conversation that is touched on. As well as the perceptions vs realities that can come out of the experience of trauma. Brook and Dr. Levine also delve into how co-regulation can have as positive effect on a child's development and the Huge need for parents to do their own personal work in order to establish a calm sense of self that they can transfer to their children. 
    Please go the somatic experiencing website https://www.somaticexperiencing.com/about-peter to find all of the upcoming workshops and offerings they have to offer.

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  6. In this episode Brook is a guest on Ross Rosenberg's Podcast "The Self-Love Recovery Podcast" https://www.selfloverecovery.com/pages/podcast
    Much of this episode is a continuation of the discussion on Codependency and Parenting that Brook and Ross began on The High Conflict Co-Parenting Podcast Episode 265 When Brook had Ross on as a guest.

    You can find more about Ross and his amazing work at https://www.selfloverecovery.com

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  7. You can follow Brook on Instagram @ highconflictdiversionprogram

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  8. This episode is from an interview that Brook did on the Bad Weather Podcast. The Bad Weather Podcast is one that is focused on helping people navigating divorce and high conflict divorce. These gentlemen bring humor and intelligence to a difficult subject. Enjoy!!!

    You can follow the Bad Weather Podcast at https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/bad-weather-podcast/id1667974583

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  9. In this Episode Brook interviews Joni and Lawrence Jones Co-Founders of Point C. Lawrence is a retired Superior Court trial judge in New Jersey and Joni is a mental health professional the served under two New Jersey governors. Point C is a non-profit who's mission is to empower parents and professional to put the well-being of the children as a priority and to illuminate the unintentional harms that parents can cause children during a hostile, high conflict separation or divorce and to advocate for a more respectful approach. 

    You can visit the Point C website to further understand the wonderful resources available there at www.pointcdivorce.com

    You can follow Brook on Instagram @ highconflictdiversionprogram

    Get our Free High Conflict Diversion Program Booklet: “When Co-Parenting Doesn’t Work.”

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  10. Using the analogy of the choice of taking the red pill or the blue pill from the Matrix movie, Brook and Tony discuss the choices of waking up to different ways of processing situations and using critical thought and sense making to explore different ways of being and ways of thinking a seeing the realities of where you are in your process. Not only learning for your self with the help of a High Conflict Coach the skill sets to move toward resolutions for your situations but also teaching your children those skillsets as they develop in order to enable them to navigate relationships and conflict in a more healthy manner. Enjoy¡¡¡

    You can follow Brook on Instagram @ highconflictdiversionprogram

    Get our Free High Conflict Diversion Program Booklet: “When Co-Parenting Doesn’t Work.”

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