The High Conflict Co-Parenting Podcast
Co-Parenting is the relationship that never ends.
If your ex is difficult to deal with, if you are experiencing high-conflict and/or the children are being hurt by the behavior of your ex partner, then this show is for you.
You may not be able to change them but you CAN change everything that your child needs to be healthy and happy. Listen in as Charlie and Brook discuss the principles, tools and techniques available in order to create peace in high conflict co-parenting relationships.
Episode 57 The Ghost in the Closet (Boo) or The Haunting (Where you been Chucky )
In this episode Brook, Charlie and Tony discuss the scary clown that is always just behind the door or curtain just waiting to jump out and try to reengage us. Enjoy!!!
Episode 56 What They Do Means Nothing, What You Do Means Everything
In this episode Brook and Charlie discuss the importance of focusing on what it is that you are doing to solve the situation and relationship with you children and not focusing on what the other parent is doing. Enjoy
Episode 55 Breaking Down The Sequence of the Three Rules
In this episode Brook and Charlie discuss the elements that go into The Three Rules. This isn’t just a repetition or mantra we do, it is actually a sequence and deepening into a process that progresses over time and that requires effort and intention. Enjoy!!!
Episode 54 The Separation-Divorce Process (Why is this so sticky)
In this episode Brook and Charlie Discuss the Break Up Sequences and how Leaving the relationship differs from Being Left. The discussion leads us into what are normal responses and where personality disorders and addiction can lead into becoming stuck in long cycles of conflict. Enjoy!!!
Episode 53 Tis The Season
In this episode Brook and Charlie discuss the need to anticipate holiday challenges and to be proactive in dealing with them and not waiting for the last minute when it is too late. Enjoy!!!
Episode 52 What's Yor Story Morning Glory
In this episode Brook and Charlie discuss the perils of the stories we have and how they have distortions and how those distortions are created. When we get lost in the stories and can’t see the distortions of both our story and those of the other parent, we are headed to the abyss of conflict. Enjoy!!!
Episode 51 Here Kitty, Kitty (The Conflict Trap)
In this episode Brook and Charlie talk about the need for holding strong boundaries and the danger of intermittent reinforcement. Enjoy!!!
Episode 50 Threading the Needle (The Long Stitch) with Tony MacAlister
In this episode Brook and Charlie talk with Tony MacAlister, a former student in one of Brook’s Classes and a Certified High Conflict Instructor. Tony talks about his journey from the beginning of his custody battle, through the various stages of understanding the conflict process the current day as his journey continues. Enjoy!!!
Episode 49 Rat Tangle with Eric Sjoberg
In this episode Brook and Charlie are joined again with Eric Sjoberg as they discuss the concept of the Rat Tangle. The Rat tangle has a great deal to do with the unconscious parts of our beliefs and behaviors as it pertains to our ancestry and family of origin. Enjoy!!!
Episode 48 The Phoenix (Tearing Down_Starting Over)
In this Episode Brook and Charlie talk about Rising from the Ashes of a High Conflict Relationship, Divorce or Custody Battle. Changing the internal chatter into a rising up into a totally new world. Enjoy!!!